There’s a lot of space—and opportunity—when the kids move out.
Facing an empty nest can be daunting and emotional, but it’s also an opportunity. Newly vacated bedrooms offer fresh real estate to usher in changes and start a new phase of life—one that’s tailored to you, not the kids.
While it may be tempting to dive right into a renovation we recommend having a plan in place before converting rooms or splurging on bathroom renovations.
Take your time. Consider what your lifestyle will be, and don’t rush into anything. Rather than just redoing a room for the sake of it, you want to consider what the lifestyle is that you want and what it could look like.
From how to upgrade the dining room to the best way to organize keepsakes, here are five tips for empty nesters looking to refresh their homes.
Don’t downsize too much
It’s tempting to cut the clutter, but it’s a good idea to take stock of what you have and what you’ll need first. One of the most common mistakes she sees couples make after the kids move out is downsizing too much, too soon.
“Often people are so excited to start a new chapter, they don’t anticipate needing guest space or a nursery for grandchildren,” explains owner of Decorating Den Interiors – Venice, Diane Schaefer. “Or they get rid of the formal dining room, and there is no place for anybody to go when the family comes over.”
She advises clients to analyze what space they might need for things like holiday gatherings. “It may only be a few times a year, but if you get together often, you’ll want more family space than you might think,” says Schaefer.
Organize Intelligently
Rather than tossing out everything the kids left behind, organize childhood treasure and mementos in plastic bins. Label and categorize each box before storing them, so when the kids have space, they can take them and know what’s in each container.
We recommend one bin per child—and make sure it’s a watertight container. Also, avoid storing physical items by turning photos and artwork into digital memory books. It can help you gain a lot of space.
Make extra bedrooms multipurpose
What is it you’ve always wanted to spend more time doing? Is it exercise? Working from home? Do you have hobbies?
From there, your extra bedroom could become a painting studio, office, sewing room, or home gym—while still functioning as a part-time bedroom. Utilize pieces like a sleeper sofa that can pull double-duty to make the room suitable for overnight guests as well. Built-in storage with a drop-down desk or Murphy bed is another great option for a multiuse room, as it adds a level of customization while creating flexibility.
Level up your entertaining
Entertaining takes on a different look and feel after the kids move out. Instead of teenagers crammed around a kitchen table, you might host a few friends for cocktails. Or you might trade the family-focused barbecue for a sit-down, four-course dinner.
Our team often works with empty nesters who want to create a more sophisticated dining room that’s suitable for formal entertaining. Now you can step it up a notch! Add extra touches like more luxurious fabrics or a new rug.
Take the room from family-friendly to five-star with high-end wallpaper, new artwork, or a handcrafted dining table. Treat yourself to fine furniture or velvet chair!
Splurge on upgrades
Replacing worn carpets with new hardwood floors is a common indulgence that we see clients make. Flooring is a great investment and can change the whole feel of the home now that you’ve started a new chapter in your life.
Upgrades to upholstered pieces in high-trafficked areas are also common. When the kids are out of the house our clients feel comfortable investing in nicer pieces that they’ve always wanted but were hesitant to purchase, like an ivory-colored sofa.
Consider converting an extra bedroom into a walk-in closet, renovating the kitchen if you love to cook, or creating a room for your favorite pastime. One of the biggest treats empty nesters can give themselves is making dedicated space for a hobby they are excited about! Don’t forget to have fun!
